Tips to Choose a Good Nursing Home
We are pleased to have Adrienne Carlson, who regularly writes on the topic of nurse practitioner schools, write the following guest article.
It’s a situation that we hope never comes to our loved ones, but if we are practical, we know that it could happen to even the healthiest of us. When elderly family members become sick and infirm and need constant round-the-clock care, we may not be able to provide what they need because we are too busy with our lives, work, social commitments and families. So we do the next best thing, choose a nursing home that caters to their every need and keeps them in comfort for the rest of their lives. When it comes to choosing a nursing home for your loved ones, here are a few salient points to keep in mind:
• Location matters: You’re going to want to visit frequently and check up on your loved one often. So choose a home that is near you, preferably not more than an hour’s drive away. The further your loved one is, the more you’re going to come up with excuses not visit and this could end up making your relationship deteriorate.
• Check it out: Never choose a home without checking it out at least twice. If possible, take your loved one with you so that they too have a say in where they’re going to live. They may also want to move in with a friend or loved one who is in a nursing home, so take their wishes into consideration too. Loneliness can weigh heavily on their mind, so it’s important that they have a friend in the facility.
• Talk to residents and staff members: Your instinct will tell you how good or bad a nursing home is. When you talk to people at the home, be it staff or residents, take in all their comments and answers without forming an opinion right away. Write down important aspects, then go home and discuss options with your loved one.
• Think of the cost factor: If you expect Medicare or similar programs to pay for the nursing home, you will be restricted to choosing one that is approved by the state under the guidelines of these programs. Visit those close to your location and choose one that is clean and has good service. Also ensure that adequate medical facilities are available to provide care during emergencies and for common conditions that occur with old age.
• Visit frequently: The only way to ensure that you’ve made the right choice of nursing home is to visit often and see that your loved one is well cared for and satisfied. If you’re not able to visit frequently, at least call and check if everything is ok.
Nursing homes are meant to be a home away from home for the elderly. So ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of when you put them in such facilities.
Adrienne welcomes your comments and questions at her email address: adrienne.carlson83@yahoo.com